Each relationship will hit a rough part or two - maybe more. Some of those rough patches may even look like cliffs from which there is no return. Fortunately, this article is here to help you work past them and see them for what they could really be- just a rough patch, nothing more.
Communication is repeatedly stressed, but often still ignored. Some people let their emotions get the better of them, leading to a breakdown in communication and eventually, the relationship.
Then everything explodes. Dirty towels and laundry becomes hellish imagery, enough to force people apart.
Real communication helps in straightening things out - should something need to get out there, get it out there. Naturally, you must still consider how you're saying it, but what's important is to say it.
A good way to keep things cool is to take a trip down the good old memories. Think about the best times you've had together and you'll find yourselves calming down before you know it.
The most fragile relationships can be bought some time if you take a moment and consider some of the better moments in it. Maybe there's a poem somewhere that you wrote together, or a rose petal from the first bouquet in your relationship. That might make things well enough to buy you time to work on your relationship together.
The strongest couples know to let go of their pride and their egos when it really counts so they can forgive each other, so they can continue to be together. Maybe they said some negative or hurtful things to each other before - but if they're strong enough, one of them is going to rise up and hold on to the relationship, often with forgiveness.
Of course, whatever you want, it won't matter unless both of you want it. A relationship can only really work if both of you are looking to make it work. - 42634
Communication is repeatedly stressed, but often still ignored. Some people let their emotions get the better of them, leading to a breakdown in communication and eventually, the relationship.
Then everything explodes. Dirty towels and laundry becomes hellish imagery, enough to force people apart.
Real communication helps in straightening things out - should something need to get out there, get it out there. Naturally, you must still consider how you're saying it, but what's important is to say it.
A good way to keep things cool is to take a trip down the good old memories. Think about the best times you've had together and you'll find yourselves calming down before you know it.
The most fragile relationships can be bought some time if you take a moment and consider some of the better moments in it. Maybe there's a poem somewhere that you wrote together, or a rose petal from the first bouquet in your relationship. That might make things well enough to buy you time to work on your relationship together.
The strongest couples know to let go of their pride and their egos when it really counts so they can forgive each other, so they can continue to be together. Maybe they said some negative or hurtful things to each other before - but if they're strong enough, one of them is going to rise up and hold on to the relationship, often with forgiveness.
Of course, whatever you want, it won't matter unless both of you want it. A relationship can only really work if both of you are looking to make it work. - 42634
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